Random Thoughts #67 - the "memento" edition

Hello and welcome to another round of Random Thoughts from yours truly.  It's been a while since I wrote last (job searching and some other stuff were the big reasons why) and I have a lot to say this time out, possibly two or three blogs worth.  With that in mind, enjoy.

 -  The big reason I'm calling this the "memento" edition is that, in preparation for the next step in this new beginning in my life, I've been sifting through a bunch of old mementos and memories to determine not only what got me to this point but what I want to take with me going forward.  A lot of it has been dealing with much of the mental clutter and related stuff that has held me back from moving forward previously regardless of whether I let it or not.  Something that has helped me tremendously in this regard is the discovery of old photos of myself at various points in my life.  Before I go on here, I have to thank my Uncle James and Aunt Claudia a lot for finding, scanning, and sending me copies of many of these pics...it means so much to me especially in that I haven't seen many of these actual photos in over 20 years.  Because of them and others, I now have photos from when I was growing up.  I posted two of these photos online in my Facebook photo album, one of me as a baby and one with me and my cousins with our great-grandmother.  I have to admit, I look in the mirror and I can see bits and pieces of me looking like what I did at those times, but I feel like I look so different now...maybe it's a mind's eye thing, I don't know.  In any case, I look at many of these photos and get reminded of the good and bad of each of those times (with the exception of the baby one, of course) and see so many of the pieces that went into how I've been going about things and, more importantly, what I'll probably need to change in order for this to work out for me.  BTW, if anybody has old photos with me in them, send them my way.

 -  Another thing that is helping and inspiring me in all this is a excerpt from a book called "The 50th Law," co-written by the rapper 50 Cent.  It's a really powerful slice of philosophy coming from one of the most prolific and controversial artists of current times.  It's given me a lot to think about and helped me make the decision to move forward with this new beginning.  You can find the excerpt here:  Keep Moving -- Flow.  It's definitely worth the read.

 -  One more thing before I move on.  I found a couple of articles online that take me back to the days of having a subscription to Popular Science where I would dream of seeing awesome fantastic innovations one day in the future.  These two particular articles focus on one-person air vehicles that could very well fit into the cartoon worlds of The Centurions or M.A.S.K. (for those of you who remember those particular cartoons).  Instead of going into details on both articles, you can check them out for yourself here:  Electric Icarus and Easy Flyer.

 -  My church home:  Crossroads World Christian Center ministered by Pastor Cory Pariseau.

 -  The big reason I waited several weeks before doing another set of Random Thoughts is that I wanted to wait until I went to Monday Night Raw which I did yesterday evening at Nationwide Arena in downtown Columbus.  It's the first time I've spoiled myself on something in over five years.  It did drag a bit near the end (due to the scripting and poorly-planned surprises), but I had a good time and it was definitely worth going.  Outcomes of the event are online at a lot of places but I did take some notes from the event which I'm posting below in bold:
  • I arrived around 6:15 PM, two hours before the event started, so I could get a decent parking spot; got lucky I didn't have to pay out the wazoo for that.
  • There is already a decent crowd waiting outside to get into Nationwide Arena, probably around 400 to 500 people.
  • The doors didn't open up until 7:00 (45 minutes in the cold) and once inside there was still a wait of about 15 minutes before we could enter the concourse.
  • I got lucky with where I got to sit for the event:  front row in the upper level where I could see all the action and the video screens pretty easily even when sitting down.  Planning beforehand does pay off sometimes.
  • The upper level behind the "hard camera" side was tarped off as well as behind the Titantron, which I would estimate to take up about a quarter of the upper level.  WWE must be expecting a decent house tonight.
  • Note to self:  I need to get a digital camera so I can take pics of things like this event and others.
  • This is my first time at Nationwide Arena for any event.  It's the first major wrestling event I've been to since WCW Nitro about a decade ago at Schottenstein Arena at OSU.  It's my first WWE event since I was a teenager, when it was the WWF and it was held at the now-defunct Richfield Colisseum just south of Cleveland.
  • Random chants start up in the crowd around 7:45.  Chants include "RKO" and "O-H-I-O" and also some general cheering.
  • All visible seating is full around 8:00.  It's a packed house.
  • I don't know if I should be saying anything about this, but this one woman was WAY too big to fit into the seat next to me.  She was actually sitting sideways and she STILL couldn't fit into the seat.  I ended up leaning to the side for most of the night, enough to avoid the person on the other side but making for mild discomfort.  I'm not a small person myself and these were pretty sizable seats, so this was...interesting for me to deal with, for lack of a better term.  I felt bad that she had so much trouble and couldn't help it with her size and all, but when it comes to situations like the one I had to deal with here...I really don't know what to think.  It's just a sad situation, I guess.
  • The event finally got started around 8:15 with matches being taped for WWE Superstars on WGN Thursday.  The matches are pretty good and Chris Masters is really over with the crowd ("over" meaning he was popular and cheered a lot).  There was a talking segment taped for Superstars with Chris Jericho and R-Truth.  Jericho got the most heat I'd ever seen at a wrestling event ("heat" meaning lots of booing), definitely the most for this night.  BTW, by winning a triple threat match, Chris Masters is officially in the Royal Rumble.
  • The action being shown on the big screens in the arena is generally the same as what's shown on TV with the exception of entrance videos.  I'm watching from what would be considered an area behind the action, so I'm getting front and back action...so to speak.  I don't think that came out right.
  • Some off-camera notes from Monday Night Raw:  whenever Cena is shown on the screen or about to enter, the kids go nuts...he is super-over with the kiddies and the women when his shirt comes off, but I think most of the guys are booing him; Hornswaggle came out during one of the commercial breaks to shoot some t-shirts out of a launcher to the crowd, even though Shawn Michaels announced on Raw that he sent Hornswaggle home (which I thought was under the ring, but I digress); there were some dead spots, mostly related to the timing of the commercials; nobody knew that one of the guest hosts, James Roday from Psych, wasn't going to be there until the segment with Cena and Dule Hill...people seemed baffled but I found out later it was really due to appendicitis, so obviously that couldn't be avoided; no dark match after Raw went off the air...Cena slapped hands with fans at ringside and that was it for the show.
  • Lots of promotion for other WWE-related stuff during the commercial breaks, especially for Wrestlemania 26 and The Marine 2.
  • I know that pro wrestling is scripted entertainment but it amazes me that there were people at the show who actually professed things that showed a lack of understanding of the nature of pro wrestling.  They seemed ignorant of the fact that almost every single aspect of it is scripted and that events are timed to fit into a short window if it's on TV.  It almost made me think they thought wrestling was more than scripted sports entertainment, or "real" for lack of a better term.  They actually come across thinking the performers are really like that in real life.  Weird phenomenon to witness live.
That was it for the event.  I got more enjoyment from the matches taped for WWE Superstars than I did for Raw itself.  Going to the show was great but If I was watching this particular Raw from home, I could only imagine myself switching between this and other channels.  That may be a problem for WWE down the line because making a single Raw or any particular show a throwaway could cause them to lose viewers, even if the kiddies love John Cena that much.

 -  This particular item is a compromise of sorts on a birthday wish.  Joe Dawg Brother, I know you wanted an entire blog about you, but I hope you will settle for an entire blurb here instead.  Joe is a rapper I've known for a dozen years, so go check out Joe Dawg Brother on Facebook, Myspace, and wherever he's performing at in Columbus and around Ohio.

 -  First Chris Henry of the Bengals, then Gaines Adams of the Chicago Bears...two active players passing away in the span of one month.  I hope that is a trend that does not continue.  RIP for both of these players.

 -  I'm ecstatic that I can finally use my normal name on Facebook instead of having to use my legal one.  The legal one is good for legal-type stuff, but for everything else I want to use DJ because...well, that's who I am.  I had to decapitalize the 'j" to make it work, but I'm happy I was able to get that done.

 -  I tried some of those throwback Pepsi's and they don't really taste any different from the ones they serve today, even with the proclamation of the throwbacks having "real sugar."  I thought it would taste different, but I was fooled....I wonder if the other throwbacks taste different from their current product.

 -  I've been having this internal debate going back and forth whether to put this particular item in the blog.  I'm not 100% behind this myself because it could stir up a hornet's nest (I've done that here before) and it could come back to bite me big time.  I'll get to why I decided to put this here after I talk about it a bit.  There is a website called DontDateHimGirl.com that includes a registry of men who women should watch out for and not date or be with.  This particular list of men from across the country and the world includes the worst of the worst, including cheaters, abusers and men who abandon their kids, but it also includes the jerks that treat everybody around them like they don't matter, especially their dates.  Fortunately and thankfully, I personally am not associated with any person on that registry.  I'm putting this blurb here today for two reasons, both under the notion that I continually look out for the people I care about and will continue to do so.  One is that there are women I know that probably need to add certain guys to that list (again, nobody I'm associated with, so it doesn't affect me that much).  And two, even though I don't know anyone in that registry, I wanted to make sure to make my friends aware of this site and other public ones like it so that they can be vigilant in making sure they don't end up on them.  It's up to you whether you want to check it out or not at the link above, but understand that I'm putting this here with the noblest of intentions and nothing less.

 -  Book of DJ:  Beware the man with no moral compass for he may come at you from any direction.

 -  Before I wrap this up, Dave and I are planning on going out this Saturday night, since we haven't been out in a while.  If anybody is interested in joining us, let me know.

 -  Song on repeat:  "My Life" by Billy Joel.  Given that it's been several weeks since my last blog, I had many candidates for this.  However, I wanted something this time out that reflected some of the essence of what I wanted to get across regarding what I've been doing and might be doing with my life as of late, hence the one I picked.  I'm not as stand-offish as the song comes across, but it does capture the essence of what I'm planning.

 -  SLP to the following:  Kristy, Patrick, Raejean, Holly, Debbie, Joe Dawg Brother, Michelle, Aunt Susie, Jennifer N., Bob & Lynn, Adrian, Uncle James & Aunt Claudia, Dave, Marcia (happy b-day), Kim, Russ, Debbie, Aunt Sandy, Jenny K., Vanessa (happy b-day), Eugene, Xavier, & George, my niece Maddie, and my sister Katie.

That's it for this edition.  I feel like it's been forever since I last wrote given how much I typed up this time out.  I am praying for improved weather here in Ohio and hope it gets better soon.  Until next time.  Take care and God Bless.

DJ
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Random Thoughts #66 - the "cold" edition

Hello and welcome to the first edition of Random Thoughts for 2010.  I hope everybody survived the holidays in one piece.  I've got a lot to start off the year with here, so with that in mind let's get to it.  Enjoy.

 -  I named this the "cold" edition for one big reason:  IT'S FRIGGIN' COLD OUTSIDE!!!  Yes, I know it's wintertime and it's the beginning of January, but I'm only a fan of winter for about two days in the beginning of the season and then I start counting down to the days of spring and warmer weather.  It's also been snowing at a regular clip here in Columbus, though up in northern Ohio they got a lot of snow already with a lot more to come.  It seems like every time I clean snow off my car I'd look outside a bit later and the car would be covered again like I never cleared it off.  This particular cold snap has apparently hit as far south as Florida, so it seems to be everywhere at this point.  Nonetheless, a few people I know moved south to get away from this cold weather and seasonal stuff, something that is starting to sound more appealing to me as I look outside my window at all the snow outside.

 -  Unlike last year, I went out for New Year's Eve to bring in 2010.  I went up to Club Polaris where I got to catch up with a few people I hadn't seen in a while.  For me it was more of a low-key affair but I had a decent time nonetheless.  Last year I didn't go out at all and I think that may have set up the overall negative vibes around me in 2009, so I wanted to set a different tone this year especially with this new beginning I'm having.  So far, so good.

 -  When this colder weather lets up a bit, I'm gonna start going out to nightspots and start dancing and being social again.  For the last half of 2009 I pretty much exiled myself from the scene (and social interaction in general) to get my bearings and work on getting my act together.  I still have to work to do but despite some of the proclamations I made during my time away (such as retiring from dancing), I realize it's time to come out of my shell and start getting back to things that did make me happy, in which dancing was one.  I'm not gonna do so much of the "formal" stuff, for lack of a better term, but I will be working on developing more of a low-key style of dancing for myself and I might still drop in on a line dance or two from time to time.  Ultimately I just want to enjoy my time and the people around me when I'm out and if New Year's Eve was any indication things are looking up.  If anybody wants to do stuff or join in just let me know.

-  I now have 100 friends on Facebook.  Unlike Myspace where I may have known only about half the people I linked up with, I know or am acquainted with every single person on my Facebook friends list.  I've very proud of that and for all my friends of Facebook, regardless if I saw you last yesterday or several years ago, I thank you for being there.

 -  My church home:  Crossroads World Christian Center.

 -  Last Sunday was the last Browns game of the season.  They defeated the Jacksonville Jaguars, ensuring they didn't make the playoffs and ending their own season with a four game winning streak.  During that streak, they broke records, ended some long-term droughts, and spoiled two teams' hopes of making this year's playoffs (the Jags and our hated arch-rival Pittsburgh Steelers).  The first three-fourths of the season were an absolute disaster with bad things coming about by the day, but they got it together and finished with the first four-game winning streak since the old team left.  Although I wish the Browns did better early on, I am optimistic about next season given how they finished this past one.  I hope new team president Mike Holmgren keeps that in mind when considering what changes need to be made in the off-season.

 -  Despite the ups and downs of the Browns 2009 season, the Westerville Browns Backers had a really solid year.  We found a home at the new Jimmy V's in Westerville.  We had good crowds show up all season long with several games being really packed.  Even though the season is over, the Backers will be having a banquet sometime in the first part of March with a couple players showing up for autographs.  When I get more information on that I'll pass it on here.  You don't have to be in the group to attend the banquet, but you will pay less for the banquet if you are a current dues-paying member.  We are also planning a draft party at Jimmy V's for NFL Draft Weekend.  The first round is taking place on a Thursday evening (seems like a dumb idea given the TV comeptition on that night, but that's just my opinion).  If anybody wants info on either event or both let me know.

 -  The Ohio State Buckeyes are Rose Bowl champions with a big win over the Oregon Ducks.  The quarterback Terrelle Pryor still has some work to do on reading a defense and how to react, but he got the job done on New Year's Day.  The win also breaks a streak of losses in big bowls for the Bucks.  All I can say is GO BUCKS!!!

 -  Yesterday evening there was a preview of a potential new Monday Night War in professional wrestling, this time between World Wrestling Entertainment and the upstart Total Non-Stop Action Wrestling.  About nine years ago the last war ended with WCW being sold by a faltering Time-Warner to it's competition, the WWF, which in conjunction with the purchase of ECW assets led to the entity we now know as WWE.  Last night's WWE show saw the return of Bret Hart to Monday Night Raw after a twelve year absence and a resolution to his long-standing grudge with Shawn Michaels.  The TNA Impact show, usually airing on Thursdays on Spike, featured to return of Hulk Hogan and Eric Bischoff to big-time wrestling to take charge and bringing some of their known associates along with recent WWE star Jeff Hardy (who looks like he's gonna be charged with drug trafficking by a grand jury, so we'll see how that goes).  It was the first time I had to switch between wrestling shows since 2001.  I wasn't as into the Monday Night War aspect as I was all those years ago, but if TNA makes the permanent move to Monday nights I might get that excitement again.  I have a weird yet unsubstantiated feeling that Shane McMahon, the son of WWE Chairman Vince McMahon and no longer part of WWE, might show up in TNA sometime in the future.  In any case, if TNA makes the move to Mondays we may witness another renaissance in pro wrestling.

 -  First Lil' Kim, then T.I., and now Lil' Wayne:  all three have served, are currently or will be serving time in jail for various reasons.  The reason I am noting this is the trend I've seen regarding their prison time.  Despite all three serving for separate crimes they were all given the same sentence:  one year and one day in prison.  This must be some type of new federal "rapper sentencing special" going on in the justice system these days.

 -  Song on repeat:  "Money In The Bank" by Swizz Beatz.  It was featured in the movie Step Up 2 The Streets.  A little editing on my part and it may serve as a potential theme song for me...like I need one, but anyway...

 -  SLP to the following:  Dave, Jay, Holly, Aunt Susie, Jen, Randy, Anna, Joe C., Marcia, Robin, Damian, Isaiah, Pastor Cory, Andrea, Rahn (Happy B-Day), Steve, and my fellow Westerville Browns Backers.

This month is usually one of the slowest for me, so at this point unless a lot happens I probably won't be doing another set of Random Thoughts until near the end of the month, where I know I'll have at least one big thing to talk about.  Until then, I will be around on Facebook and hopefully out on the town once again.  Until next time...take care and God Bless.

DJ
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